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Q:
How do you access emotions?
A: In Radix work, we work with blocks to energy flow in the
body that are associated with blocking feelings. Some people have
a deadness, or lack of feeling, or difficulty knowing or expressing
their feelings, and work with them is geared to help them center,
and know what they are feeling, and work through blocks against
physical expression of feeling. Other people are overwhelmed with
uncontrollable feeling that can be frightening or come out inappropriately;
work with them is geared towards learning how to focus feeling with
less chaos, and how to come out of feeling when that's what's needed.
We combine verbal and cognitive work with physical exercises, positions,
and exploration, to identify what's going on at the moment and then
how to move it more deeply and naturally. The work is experiential:
the client does it in session, as well as talking about it.
As an example, think of a person who hasn't cried in 25 years. They
will typically be rigidly tight in all the musculature associated
with crying (and breathing): eye area, jaw/mouth, throat/neck, shoulders,
chest, back, diaphragm. We would begin with helping to relax at
the top (eye/scalp) and when feeling/energy can move there, continuing
on to the mouth, etc., always integrating as we work downwards.
Over time the person will be able to have a more full-body expression
of sadness.
As an example of the "overwhelmed" type of person, think
of someone who goes into overwhelming rage when their 3 year-old
defies them. We would work with reality grounding, physically and
cognitively, and breathing awareness to avoid escalation, and ways
to keep centered and in contact while not raging; and also helping
with fuller and more focused expression of anger in safer or more
appropriate ways.
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